Let me preface by saying your time isn’t the universe’s time.
The faster you face the internal conflicts though and the more you actively try to rip out your pain, the faster you will get what you want to get. When your state matches your subconscious that’s when you go to another level and you send off a different vibratorial frequency, because you are one!
It’s when your reality matches your internal blueprint.
What happens is we try to fake our state with what’s going on internally. When that happens, your micro-expressions don’t match what you say/do. Everything must be aligned. Aligning yourself requires ripping out the blocks holding you back.
Eric Thomas puts it eloquently here in this video talking about Adele: